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<?xml-stylesheet href="/style/rss/rss_feed.xsl" type="text/xsl" media="screen"?><?xml-stylesheet href="/style/rss/rss_feed.css" type="text/css" media="screen" ?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Clipmarks | Tantric Clips</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantric/</link><feedUrl>http://rss.clipmarks.com/tags/tantric/</feedUrl><ttl>15</ttl><description>Clip, tag and save information that's important to you. Bookmarks save entire pages...Clipmarks save the specific content that matters to you!</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>Swami Sivananda on Tantra</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/19D8250A-FBE2-4F37-9B6E-E4FDE167356F/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/shambhavi/"&gt;shambhavi&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.dlshq.org/teachings/tantrayoga.htm" title="http://www.dlshq.org/teachings/tantrayoga.htm"&gt;www.dlshq.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P align="left"&gt;Tantra Yoga is the saving wisdom. It is the marvellous boat which takes
  man safely to the other shore of fearlessness, immortality, freedom, and perfection, when
  practised with understanding under personal guidance of well-established Tantric Guru. &lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sivananda/" rel="tag"&gt;sivananda&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/yoga/" rel="tag"&gt;yoga&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.dlshq.org/teachings/tantrayoga.htm</clipSource><pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 00:22:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>YAB-YUM YUM EXERCISE</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/547AF4F3-96CF-4364-89CB-99280857BF6C/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/pigboom/"&gt;pigboom&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/633-soul-freedom-exercise-15-yab-yum-yum/" title="http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/633-soul-freedom-exercise-15-yab-yum-yum/"&gt;www.askaboutloveandsex.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;The Tibetan Buddhist term yab-yum translates as father/mother, masculine/feminine or yang/yin. Yab-yum is the ultimate Tantric lovemaking position because it is ideal for sharing energy.&lt;/DIV&gt;
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&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;Time for Exercise: &lt;FONT color="#800000"&gt;five minutes to one hour&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;
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Properties Required: &lt;FONT color="#800000"&gt;each other&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT color="#800000"&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT size="3"&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;

&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;FONT size="3"&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT size="3"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;Steps: &lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;FONT size="2"&gt;&lt;DIV&gt; In the yab-yum sexual position, the woman straddles the man as he sits cross-legged on the floor in the lotus position. He might have cushions under his knees for support and comfort, especially if he wants to maintain the position for more than a few minutes. Very firm Indian style pillows work perfectly. Alternatively, he might sit on a straight-backed chair and she will climb on top.&lt;/DIV&gt;
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The lovers face each other with eyes open. They harmonize their breathing (see Harmony Breath). They can kiss, touching their tongues together. The eyes, breath, and tongues act as energy switches connecting the flow of hot sexual energy between the two lovers’ bodies. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/yab-yum/" rel="tag"&gt;yab-yum&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sexuality/" rel="tag"&gt;sexuality&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantric-sex/" rel="tag"&gt;tantric-sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/relationships/" rel="tag"&gt;relationships&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/633-soul-freedom-exercise-15-yab-yum-yum/</clipSource><pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:52:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>"paintings are talking you, beyond word" ...Buddhist art...</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/4ADBC818-EF43-4FEB-A908-C6179A957924/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/einbar/"&gt;einbar&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  "The Buddha did not initiate the creation of sacred images. Once he said to a disciple, who wanted to see him before dying: «Oh, Vakkhali, why do you want to see this body, composed of unclear substances? He who perceives Dharma, Vakkhali, perceives me. He who perceives me perceives Dharma». Thus, as far as we know, there was no worship of the Buddha’s image in the early Buddhist community after his Parinirvāṇa. &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/1%20Tanka%20on%20the%20hill.jpg" title="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/1%20Tanka%20on%20the%20hill.jpg"&gt;www.buddhistdoor.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/D6F9A4B4-6735-4333-9833-BEE3BC9C42F6.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/Introductory_1.html" title="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/Introductory_1.html"&gt;www.buddhistdoor.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;For a Buddhist, any Dharma images or symbols belonging to any Buddhist tradition 
or place of origin are associated with the Awakened &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/8%20red%20Manjushri.jpg" title="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/8%20red%20Manjushri.jpg"&gt;www.buddhistdoor.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/8A212C12-9366-4E59-B369-1FCB6FA17B72.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/Introductory_1.html" title="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/Introductory_1.html"&gt;www.buddhistdoor.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Art is also used to facilitate meditation and different ritual practices. The 
Buddha image, for example, serves as a base for śamatha meditation, and 
different Tantric images are needed for certain initiation ceremonies, etc. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/5%20tsagli352.jpg" title="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/5%20tsagli352.jpg"&gt;www.buddhistdoor.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/C0988C1E-3F95-4058-8032-E0BA06DCE6C5.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/5%20tsagli22.jpg" title="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/5%20tsagli22.jpg"&gt;www.buddhistdoor.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/344AEAC0-587A-4DA8-BE6A-454E5D1A4E13.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/Introductory_1.html" title="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/Introductory_1.html"&gt;www.buddhistdoor.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Buddhist art may remind the viewer of the meaning of the Dharma: “. . . if you 
have the inner experience of what the [image] symbolizes, every time you see a 
Mahayana painting, a deep positive imprint is placed upon your mind, and you 
receive transcendental wisdom.&amp;nbsp; In fact, these paintings are talking to 
you, beyond words.”&amp;nbsp; - Lama Yeshe,&lt;EM&gt; Becoming Vajrasattva: the Tantric 
Path of Purification&lt;/EM&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Wisdom &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/7%20Vajrasattva%20tsakli.jpg" title="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/7%20Vajrasattva%20tsakli.jpg"&gt;www.buddhistdoor.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/F6172E69-A5C2-4AF0-8FA6-F828402C283D.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/24b%20Jataka%20on%20Tigress.jpg" title="http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/24b%20Jataka%20on%20Tigress.jpg"&gt;www.buddhistdoor.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/51E2411A-7372-48FE-AFEF-8B3ADE883550.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.buddhistdoor.com/BuddhistArt/images/Intro/1%20Tanka%20on%20the%20hill.jpg</clipSource><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 11:57:09 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>TANTRIC</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/3F51DB82-8058-4D9E-A197-B222641D8FE9/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/tantric/"&gt;tantric&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://video.stumbleupon.com/" title="http://video.stumbleupon.com/"&gt;video.stumbleupon.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Video]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://video.stumbleupon.com/</clipSource><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 18:23:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Keepin' It Real -  11 Reality Shows That Prove The Apocalypse Is Upon Us</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/414D255C-ABE5-4B1A-A779-AB30284EC2AC/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/JediKnut/"&gt;JediKnut&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  Really hilarious! Check the site to read about why each one is crap, and the moment of apocalypse for each show! &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.campussqueeze.com/post/11-Reality-Shows-That-Prove-The-Apocalypse-Is-Upon-Us.aspx" title="http://www.campussqueeze.com/post/11-Reality-Shows-That-Prove-The-Apocalypse-Is-Upon-Us.aspx"&gt;www.campussqueeze.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2 class="title"&gt;
                        &lt;A class="taggedlink" href="http://www.campussqueeze.com/post/11-Reality-Shows-That-Prove-The-Apocalypse-Is-Upon-Us.aspx"&gt;
                            11 Reality Shows That Prove The Apocalypse Is Upon Us
                        &lt;/A&gt;
                    &lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Reality shows are difficult to understand. "Reality" refers to how "real" something is, so a television show labeled "reality" would have to be "realistic," right? And yet, you've never found yourself in a tuxedo handing roses to 28 year-old investment bankers with Ph.D's in neuroscience and years of training at a Tibetan Tantric-sex monastery. And you've probably never lived in a Hollywood mansion with the dad from Wonder Years and the fat, untalented Baldwin. With that in mind, check out our list of the reality shows that prove the Apocalypse is upon us.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;11.)  MTV’s &lt;EM&gt;A Shot at Love With Tila Tequila&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/967D95EA-58E4-4FC2-B35B-83CEAEA7C22E.jpg" alt="Shot At Love With Tila Tequila" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;10.)  Fox’s &lt;EM&gt;Trading Spouses&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/A4CDDAA5-B6BA-448D-9D63-699391631752.jpg" alt="Trading Spouses" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;9.)  Bravo's &lt;EM&gt;Millionaire Matchmaker&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/2D1CED20-B6DB-49DB-B33D-F4EB1E70D537.jpg" alt="Millionaire Matchmaker" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;8.)  VH1's &lt;EM&gt;Flavor of Love&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/BBB8B43C-E890-440D-8C69-BC946D369DBA.jpg" alt="Flavor Of Love With Flavor Flav" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;7.)  Bravo's &lt;EM&gt;Real Housewives of New York City&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/45BFDAC4-2C54-4251-8FC8-19BF837AF4F7.jpg" alt="Real Housewives of NYC" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;6.)  E!'s &lt;EM&gt;Keeping Up with the Kardashians&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/3E11796B-2F38-4430-88CA-F029F144C993.jpg" alt="Keeping Up with the Kardashians" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;5.)  NBC's &lt;EM&gt;Celebrity Circus&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/87163039-260B-4D8B-9045-3154B380DA99.jpg" alt="Celebrity Circus" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;4.)  The Oxygen Network's &lt;EM&gt;The Bad Girls Club&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/958BA440-48EC-463A-A4D4-AD1CAD8F5113.jpg" alt="Bad Girls Club" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;3.)  Fox's &lt;EM&gt;Moment of Truth&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/6ED875C2-5295-47E2-9CE3-4E9EC7AFC9ED.jpg" alt="Moment of Truth" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;2.)  VH1's &lt;EM&gt;I Love Money&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/A84DB2CF-7639-41AD-BB1F-FB0483FB4FD7.jpg" alt="I Love Money - VH1" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;1.)  MTV's &lt;EM&gt;My Super Sweet 16&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/H2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/JediKnut/512/317F9825-0978-47DD-A30C-4D16CB9815A4.jpg" alt="My Super Sweet 16 - MTV" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/reality+shows/" rel="tag"&gt;reality shows&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tv/" rel="tag"&gt;tv&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/television/" rel="tag"&gt;television&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.campussqueeze.com/post/11-Reality-Shows-That-Prove-The-Apocalypse-Is-Upon-Us.aspx</clipSource><pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 08:48:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>What does tantric sex have to do with the Kama Sutra, if anything?</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/3A11A694-E416-4533-970A-354943A422DE/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/pigboom/"&gt;pigboom&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/561-what-does-tantric-sex-have-to-do-with-the-kama-sutra/" title="http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/561-what-does-tantric-sex-have-to-do-with-the-kama-sutra/"&gt;www.askaboutloveandsex.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;The Kama Sutra dates back to about 400 CE, about 1,600 years. It is a manual for developing the erotic sensibilities, knowledge and skill, including specific instruction on sexual techniques, as well as many other sensual and cultural expressions, referred to as the 64 arts. The approach to sex in the Kama Sutra is from a secular (non-religious, non-spiritual) perspective, whereas Tantra is definitely spiritual.&lt;SPAN id="more-561"&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt; The Kama Sutra does not in any way deny the value of spiritual practice, it is just not presenting that perspective. Tantra is all about awakening to full enlightenment, while the Kama Sutra is about great, satisfying, fulfilling sex, primarily between heterosexual couples. In the Kama Sutra sex was considered an essential aspect of everyone’s education.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/kama-sutra/" rel="tag"&gt;kama-sutra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantric+sex/" rel="tag"&gt;tantric sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sex/" rel="tag"&gt;sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/history/" rel="tag"&gt;history&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/561-what-does-tantric-sex-have-to-do-with-the-kama-sutra/</clipSource><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 15:45:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>About Tantra </title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/437CCF0F-3098-4187-A80D-CD6D6617A350/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/4freedomstantra/"&gt;4freedomstantra&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.squidoo.com/sacredsex" title="http://www.squidoo.com/sacredsex"&gt;www.squidoo.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Tantra is a spiritual tradition that originated in India some 4,000 years ago. It is a way of life that celebrates and strives for the union of body, mind, heart and soul. Tantra is a form of yoga. Yoga means union. The ultimate purpose of Tantra is the union of lovers, and ultimately union with the Divine. In the Tantric tradition, sexuality and spirituality are joined. Lovers actually invite God into their bed!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;The practices of Tantra were first introduced to the west in the 1800s, but a Tantric revival in the ashrams of India during the late 1960s has led to a gradual popularization of these practices in Europe and North America. Recent testimonials by celebrity musicians and movie stars like Sting and Woody Harrelson have promoted it and Tantra is becoming the sexual learning of choice for those who want to have it all: a passionate sex life, a healthy body, and spiritual growth.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantric+sex/" rel="tag"&gt;tantric sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sacred+sex/" rel="tag"&gt;sacred sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/relationships/" rel="tag"&gt;relationships&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sting/" rel="tag"&gt;sting&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.squidoo.com/sacredsex</clipSource><pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 13:45:50 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>The Male Tantrika</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/D5FF4E81-E403-44C9-91F2-1BA6ED3EC1E5/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/4freedomstantra/"&gt;4freedomstantra&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  The male tantrika practices semen retention through transmutation of the sexual energy. There is more to this than meets the eye. &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://tantra-sex.blogspot.com/2008/03/male-tantrika.html" title="http://tantra-sex.blogspot.com/2008/03/male-tantrika.html"&gt;tantra-sex.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Practicing semen retention does not mean "Never ejaculating." I simply means retaining semen long enough to avoid depletion.&lt;BR /&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Avoiding ejaculation for too long leads to congestion/stagnation (commonly known as "blue balls") in the male genitalia which can be a problem in itself.&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Congestion/stagnation can be lessened through specific practices such as taoist male genital massage.&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;More important than simple semen retention is learning transmutation of the sexual energy, where the orgasmic impulse is directed up the spine, (spinal orgasm).&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;With practice, the frequency of ejaculation lengthens as does the time spent lovemaking.&lt;BR /&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Although orgasm may become more frequent and powerful, it becomes separated from the impulse to ejaculate so that ejaculation occurs only occasionally.&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Eventually, the habit of ejaculation will be relearned so that ejaculation becomes difficult. When this happens, intention must be focused to make it occur from time to time."&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantrika/" rel="tag"&gt;tantrika&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantric+sex/" rel="tag"&gt;tantric sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/orgasm/" rel="tag"&gt;orgasm&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/ejaculation/" rel="tag"&gt;ejaculation&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sexuality/" rel="tag"&gt;sexuality&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://tantra-sex.blogspot.com/2008/03/male-tantrika.html</clipSource><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 22:42:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Do not harbor evil intentions against others in your mind,</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/D4F3F6BE-0246-4B57-83C3-DDF2092CC156/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/bhai1/"&gt;bhai1&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.orkut.com/Scrapbook.aspx" title="http://www.orkut.com/Scrapbook.aspx"&gt;www.orkut.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;
Do not harbor evil intentions against others.&lt;BR /&gt;Aasaa, Fifth Mehla:&lt;BR /&gt;Remembering Him in meditation, one abides in peace;&lt;BR /&gt;one becomes happy, and suffering is ended. ||1||&lt;BR /&gt;Celebrate, make merry, and sing God's Glories.&lt;BR /&gt;Forever and ever, surrender to the True Guru. ||1||Pause||&lt;BR /&gt;Act in accordance with the Shabad, the True Word of the True Guru.&lt;BR /&gt;Remain steady and stable within the home of your own self, and find God. ||2||&lt;BR /&gt;Do not harbor evil intentions against others in your mind,&lt;BR /&gt;and you shall not be troubled, O Siblings of Destiny, O friends. ||3||&lt;BR /&gt;The Name of the Lord, Har, Har, is the Tantric exercise, and the Mantra, given by the Guru.&lt;BR /&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;Nanak knows this peace alone, night and day. ||4||11||62||&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;This Shabad is by Guru Arjan Dev Ji in Raag Aasaa on Pannaa 386&lt;BR /&gt;Courtsey :&lt;A target="_blank" href="http://www.sikhitothemax.com/"&gt;http://www.sikhitothemax.com&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/spiritual+studies/" rel="tag"&gt;spiritual studies&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sikh+religion/" rel="tag"&gt;sikh religion&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/meditation/" rel="tag"&gt;meditation&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.orkut.com/Scrapbook.aspx</clipSource><pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2008 19:38:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How to Get Your Partner Excited about Engaging in Tantric Sex</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/AF11AF6C-A959-4647-9D58-3C49AD0FADE3/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/4freedomstantra/"&gt;4freedomstantra&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://tantra-sex.blogspot.com/2008/03/engage-your-partner-in-tantric-sex.html" title="http://tantra-sex.blogspot.com/2008/03/engage-your-partner-in-tantric-sex.html"&gt;tantra-sex.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Step 1: &lt;SPAN&gt;Just touch on the topic.&lt;/SPAN&gt; Start the conversation by discussing how you want her to enjoy sex more. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Step 2: &lt;SPAN&gt;Start the education process.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Talk about Tantric sex' goals first and not its ways or methods.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Step 3: &lt;SPAN&gt;Tell her it's not even THAT big a mystery.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Let her know that rock star Sting and his wife engages in Tantric sex all the time.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Step 4: &lt;SPAN&gt;Reassure her that your interest in Tantric sex is NOT because there's something 'wrong' in your relationship now.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Step 5: &lt;SPAN&gt;Suggest a good way to start practicing Tantric sex.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;A great way to end the discussion is to suggest (not push!) moving forward into trying Tantric sex. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantric+sex/" rel="tag"&gt;tantric sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/kama+sutra/" rel="tag"&gt;kama sutra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sex/" rel="tag"&gt;sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/relationship/" rel="tag"&gt;relationship&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://tantra-sex.blogspot.com/2008/03/engage-your-partner-in-tantric-sex.html</clipSource><pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 23:35:05 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions -"Sexual Fire Breath" </title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/7FA90EA5-0876-47D1-A26A-C3753DBEAF30/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/4freedomstantra/"&gt;4freedomstantra&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  Sexual Fire Breath&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;    * Lie on your back. Feet flat on the floor/bed. Knees bent. Legs comfortably apart. Hands at your sides, palms up. Eyes closed.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;    * Begin to breathe slowly and deeply into your belly.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;    * Focus your attention on your genitals and visualize drawing breath in and out through them.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;    * When you have a comfortable breathing rhythm established, begin to rock your pelvis, tilting it up toward the sky. Use your feet to slightly push off the floor so that you are not using your abdominal muscles to rock and they can remain loose and open.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;    * Inhale as you rock back. Exhale as you rock forward. (Note: some bodies want to do it the opposite way – listen to yours and go with what feels right).&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;    * Make sound as you exhale – AAAAAHHHH. (This is the most difficult part for many people but it helps enormously, sound carries the energy).&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;    * When you are in a comfortable rhythm, add PC Pumping. Tighten your PC muscles as you rock back. Relax th &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/184-tantra-and-kama-sutra-sex-positions-sexual-fire-breath/" title="http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/184-tantra-and-kama-sutra-sex-positions-sexual-fire-breath/"&gt;www.askaboutloveandsex.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;The sexual fire breath is one of the best exercises, especially with a partner (but you can also do it alone), for rapidly building a hot sexual charge and moving it up through your body, helping to open all of your chakra centers. In the sexual fire breath you use a combination of sound, pelvic rocking, PC (pubococcygeous) muscle squeezes, deep abdominal breathing, visualization and hand movements.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/kama+sutra/" rel="tag"&gt;kama sutra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantric/" rel="tag"&gt;tantric&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sex/" rel="tag"&gt;sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sexual/" rel="tag"&gt;sexual&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/184-tantra-and-kama-sutra-sex-positions-sexual-fire-breath/</clipSource><pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 23:33:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>The reality of married lovemaking</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/B915D450-E27F-4088-BA1F-3022CBD978D6/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/Aribeth/"&gt;Aribeth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  "The challenge for couples is balancing a sense of intimacy and safety and security with a sense of unpredictability and creativity and eroticism," says Barry McCarthy, Ph.D., a psychology professor at American University in Washington, D.C. "When sexual intimacy is strong, making love plays a healthy 15 to 20 percent role in energizing your marriage. The paradox is that when sex is problematic, it plays an inordinately powerful, negative role in new marriages." &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.rd.com/love/7-stages-of-marriage/the-ultimate-sex-guide-for-newlyweds/article.html" title="http://www.rd.com/love/7-stages-of-marriage/the-ultimate-sex-guide-for-newlyweds/article.html"&gt;www.rd.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H3&gt;The Reality of Married Lovemaking&lt;/H3&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;the frequency and quality of unmarried sex had little to do with the reality of married lovemaking&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Nearly half&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;couples&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;didn't have sex as often as they'd like&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;20 percent of new wives reported low sexual desire&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;For a fourth of the wives, sex meant painful intercourse or elusive orgasms&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;1 in 10 husbands experienced premature ejaculation&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;1 in 20 had erection problems&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;


What ever happened to athletic, swinging-from-the-chandeliers, "did-the-earth-move-for-you-too?" prenuptial lovemaking? The deep, mystical, Tantric communing of two spirits? Hours of Hollywood sex complete with mood music, flickering candlelight, and satin sheets? &lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/Aribeth/512/52B8B83A-393C-4244-B6FA-C8A41886020E.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;The excitement of getting married gives couples a hit of dopamine -- a feel-good brain chemical that increases sex drive.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;For a few months&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;things may stay hot&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;And while you still love each other and feel passionate about each other, the dopamine does settle down.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;You're back to real life.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Your expectations about married sex take over.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.rd.com/love/7-stages-of-marriage/the-ultimate-sex-guide-for-newlyweds/article.html</clipSource><pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2008 08:23:22 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Tantric Master Breaks Ice Record In NYC</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/1DE568C3-958D-4E0C-94FC-FC46B468C97C/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/wiccantexan/"&gt;wiccantexan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/01/27/ap/strange/main3756084.shtml" title="http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/01/27/ap/strange/main3756084.shtml"&gt;www.cbsnews.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/wiccantexan/512/B25FF4BE-1992-4E5C-B2F5-D735AFFD2647.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;A man who calls himself a tantric master broke his own world record by standing engulfed in ice for 72 minutes.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Wim Hof, 48, stood on a Manhattan street in a clear container filled with ice for an hour and 12 minutes Saturday.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Hof said he survives by controlling his body temperature through tantric meditation. Tantra is an Eastern tradition of ritual and meditation said to bring followers closer to their chosen deities.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Hof set the world record for full body ice contact endurance in 2004, when he immersed himself in ice for an hour and eight minutes.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;Hof's feat kicked off BRAINWAVE, a five-month series of events in New York exploring how art, music, and meditation affect the brain.&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/meditation/" rel="tag"&gt;meditation&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/medical/" rel="tag"&gt;medical&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/ice/" rel="tag"&gt;ice&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/ritual/" rel="tag"&gt;ritual&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/art/" rel="tag"&gt;art&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/body/" rel="tag"&gt;body&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/01/27/ap/strange/main3756084.shtml</clipSource><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 04:33:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Tantra Sacred Spiritual Sex</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/6C2D1AAF-80AA-4DE2-943B-C88408BC50F5/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/4freedomstantra/"&gt;4freedomstantra&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/34-tantra-sacred-spiritual-sex/" title="http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/34-tantra-sacred-spiritual-sex/"&gt;www.askaboutloveandsex.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Sacred sex goes far beyond the bedroom, helping partners open fully to each other in trust and love through all facets of their relationship. Your relationship itself becomes a vehicle for spiritual growth and personal awareness. As you learn to open to yourself, to your own inner lover, you naturally open to others around you. You begin to understand that surrender does not mean submission or loss of self, but rather a loving expansion to something that is much greater than you are.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;O _moz-userdefined="" :p=""&gt; &lt;/O&gt;Balancing Feminine (Yin) and Masculine (Yang)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/4freedomstantra/512/2FAD4A99-20B8-42DC-8AB0-213DABA48A6D.gif" alt="YinYangCombo.gif" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;n both Taoist (China) and Tantric (India) traditions there are two opposite yet complementary forces at play in the universe, what the Taoists call Yin and Yang. Yin represents the feminine: cool, receptive, moist, and nourishing. Yang represents the masculine: active, dry, and fiery. Women are mostly yin, men are mostly yang—what popular author John Grey calls Venus and Mars—but within each woman there is some masculine energy and within each man some feminine. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sacred+sex/" rel="tag"&gt;sacred sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/spiritual+sex/" rel="tag"&gt;spiritual sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra+sex/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra sex&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/kama+sutra/" rel="tag"&gt;kama sutra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/yin+yang/" rel="tag"&gt;yin yang&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/taoist/" rel="tag"&gt;taoist&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.askaboutloveandsex.com/34-tantra-sacred-spiritual-sex/</clipSource><pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2007 16:36:19 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How Tantra Works</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/8E70BC7A-05A4-448A-B7CD-2B704FC3343B/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/4freedomstantra/"&gt;4freedomstantra&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://tantra-sex.blogspot.com/2007/11/how-tantra-works.html" title="http://tantra-sex.blogspot.com/2007/11/how-tantra-works.html"&gt;tantra-sex.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;"Tantric yoga is essentially a reprogramming of the mind, and it is the holistic move to the think of the coupler from the saucer of analyse of the individualist themselves. It draws on every the assorted different sciences, including astronomy, astrology, numerology, physics, chemistry, alchemy, psychology, and mathematics. The base determine of Buddhism yoga is to wage a applicatory effectuation of realizing the maximal ideals of belief in regular life.&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;Tantric yoga is also thoughtful as existence healthy to support with cosmic and sexed energy, and it stresses the intent that a enthusiastic varicosity runs from the minimal conception of the spine, where the diapsid power, Kundalini, rests, to the maximal and most knowledge center, the mind, which is symbolized by the lotus."&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantra/" rel="tag"&gt;tantra&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/tantric+yoga/" rel="tag"&gt;tantric yoga&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/sex+energy/" rel="tag"&gt;sex energy&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/buddhism/" rel="tag"&gt;buddhism&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/yoga/" rel="tag"&gt;yoga&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://tantra-sex.blogspot.com/2007/11/how-tantra-works.html</clipSource><pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2007 16:50:09 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>