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YAB-YUM YUM EXERCISE

Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:52:57 GMT

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The Tibetan Buddhist term yab-yum translates as father/mother, masculine/feminine or yang/yin. Yab-yum is the ultimate Tantric lovemaking position because it is ideal for sharing energy.

Time for Exercise: five minutes to one hour

Properties Required: each other

Steps:

In the yab-yum sexual position, the woman straddles the man as he sits cross-legged on the floor in the lotus position. He might have cushions under his knees for support and comfort, especially if he wants to maintain the position for more than a few minutes. Very firm Indian style pillows work perfectly. Alternatively, he might sit on a straight-backed chair and she will climb on top.

The lovers face each other with eyes open. They harmonize their breathing (see Harmony Breath). They can kiss, touching their tongues together. The eyes, breath, and tongues act as energy switches connecting the flow of hot sexual energy between the two lovers’ bodies.

Tags: tantra, yab-yum, sexuality, tantric-sex, relationships

What does tantric sex have to do with the Kama Sutra, if anything?

Wed, 14 May 2008 15:45:55 GMT

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The Kama Sutra dates back to about 400 CE, about 1,600 years. It is a manual for developing the erotic sensibilities, knowledge and skill, including specific instruction on sexual techniques, as well as many other sensual and cultural expressions, referred to as the 64 arts. The approach to sex in the Kama Sutra is from a secular (non-religious, non-spiritual) perspective, whereas Tantra is definitely spiritual. The Kama Sutra does not in any way deny the value of spiritual practice, it is just not presenting that perspective. Tantra is all about awakening to full enlightenment, while the Kama Sutra is about great, satisfying, fulfilling sex, primarily between heterosexual couples. In the Kama Sutra sex was considered an essential aspect of everyone’s education.

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About Tantra

Thu, 17 Apr 2008 13:45:50 GMT

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Tantra is a spiritual tradition that originated in India some 4,000 years ago. It is a way of life that celebrates and strives for the union of body, mind, heart and soul. Tantra is a form of yoga. Yoga means union. The ultimate purpose of Tantra is the union of lovers, and ultimately union with the Divine. In the Tantric tradition, sexuality and spirituality are joined. Lovers actually invite God into their bed!

The practices of Tantra were first introduced to the west in the 1800s, but a Tantric revival in the ashrams of India during the late 1960s has led to a gradual popularization of these practices in Europe and North America. Recent testimonials by celebrity musicians and movie stars like Sting and Woody Harrelson have promoted it and Tantra is becoming the sexual learning of choice for those who want to have it all: a passionate sex life, a healthy body, and spiritual growth.

Tags: tantra, tantric sex, sacred sex, relationships, sting

The Male Tantrika

Thu, 27 Mar 2008 22:42:49 GMT

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clipper's remarks: The male tantrika practices semen retention through transmutation of the sexual energy. There is more to this than meets the eye.

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Practicing semen retention does not mean "Never ejaculating." I simply means retaining semen long enough to avoid depletion.
Avoiding ejaculation for too long leads to congestion/stagnation (commonly known as "blue balls") in the male genitalia which can be a problem in itself.
Congestion/stagnation can be lessened through specific practices such as taoist male genital massage.
More important than simple semen retention is learning transmutation of the sexual energy, where the orgasmic impulse is directed up the spine, (spinal orgasm).
With practice, the frequency of ejaculation lengthens as does the time spent lovemaking.
Although orgasm may become more frequent and powerful, it becomes separated from the impulse to ejaculate so that ejaculation occurs only occasionally.
Eventually, the habit of ejaculation will be relearned so that ejaculation becomes difficult. When this happens, intention must be focused to make it occur from time to time."

Tags: tantrika, tantra, tantric sex, orgasm, ejaculation, sexuality

Body Freedom Exercises

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 23:43:56 GMT

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clipper's remarks: Determine which hugs are suitable for which people and circumstances. Hug your lover. Hug other people you feel emotionally close to, for example, children, parents, close friends, and co-workers.

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High on Hugs

Time for Exercise: 10 seconds to one minute per hug

Properties Required: none

Steps:

1.Give your lover different kinds of hugs.

2.Ask your lover to guess each hug’s meaning.
Here are some suggestions for hugs with different qualities and various degrees and types
of intimacy.

I love you (for a lover)

Woman to woman (friends)

I love you (for a family member)

Woman to woman (lovers)

I love you (for a friend)

Opposite sex (friends)

Opposite sex (lovers)

A hug for someone you are sexually active with

“I’m afraid, please hold me”

I might be able to get interested in sex now

Comfort hug (“Everything will be okay.”)

I am really horny

Grief hug (“I’m so sorry for your loss.”)

Hello

Celebrate success or winning (hooray!)

Good-bye (short separation)

Good-bye (long separation)

Thank you (small)

Thank you (major)

Man to man (friends)

Man to man (lovers)

I miss you

This is a reward

Invent some of your own hugs with particular meanings.

Tags: relationship, love, freedom, tantra, advice, intimacy

How to Get Your Partner Excited about Engaging in Tantric Sex

Mon, 17 Mar 2008 23:35:05 GMT

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Step 1: Just touch on the topic. Start the conversation by discussing how you want her to enjoy sex more.

Step 2: Start the education process.

Talk about Tantric sex' goals first and not its ways or methods.

Step 3: Tell her it's not even THAT big a mystery.

Let her know that rock star Sting and his wife engages in Tantric sex all the time.

Step 4: Reassure her that your interest in Tantric sex is NOT because there's something 'wrong' in your relationship now.

Step 5: Suggest a good way to start practicing Tantric sex.

A great way to end the discussion is to suggest (not push!) moving forward into trying Tantric sex.

Tags: tantra, tantric sex, kama sutra, sex, relationship

Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions -"Sexual Fire Breath"

Wed, 12 Mar 2008 23:33:16 GMT

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clipper's remarks: Sexual Fire Breath

* Lie on your back. Feet flat on the floor/bed. Knees bent. Legs comfortably apart. Hands at your sides, palms up. Eyes closed.

* Begin to breathe slowly and deeply into your belly.

* Focus your attention on your genitals and visualize drawing breath in and out through them.

* When you have a comfortable breathing rhythm established, begin to rock your pelvis, tilting it up toward the sky. Use your feet to slightly push off the floor so that you are not using your abdominal muscles to rock and they can remain loose and open.

* Inhale as you rock back. Exhale as you rock forward. (Note: some bodies want to do it the opposite way – listen to yours and go with what feels right).

* Make sound as you exhale – AAAAAHHHH. (This is the most difficult part for many people but it helps enormously, sound carries the energy).

* When you are in a comfortable rhythm, add PC Pumping. Tighten your PC muscles as you rock back. Relax th

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The sexual fire breath is one of the best exercises, especially with a partner (but you can also do it alone), for rapidly building a hot sexual charge and moving it up through your body, helping to open all of your chakra centers. In the sexual fire breath you use a combination of sound, pelvic rocking, PC (pubococcygeous) muscle squeezes, deep abdominal breathing, visualization and hand movements.

Tags: tantra, kama sutra, tantric, sex, sexual

Vaginal Exercisers

Thu, 14 Feb 2008 23:05:28 GMT

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clipper's remarks: Bring your yoni to life with these great exercisers: tone muscles, build strength, increase sensation.

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Bring your yoni to life with these great exercisers: tone muscles, build strength, increase sensation.

The Energie Kegel Exerciser

Smart Balls – Erotispheres

Ben Wa Balls

Ben Wa Eggs

Betty's Barbell

Tags: tantra, kama sutra, sex toys, dildos, yoni, exercisers

Soul Sex: Tantra for Two

Thu, 10 Jan 2008 06:24:09 GMT

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by Al Link and Pala Copeland

Sex and spirit are our passion - in living, working and writing. Our book, Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, shows couples how they can practically combine these two powerful forces to create a long-term, loving relationship. Through our mix of ancient Eastern sexual practices and modern western approaches to communication and intimacy lovers learn to connect in ways that are respectful, nourishing and lusty.

This is a useful, down-to-earth book written by real lovers for real lovers.

Everything we write about we do in our own relationship to keep it healthy, hot and ever-evolving.

Beautiful line drawings and black and white photographs help to illustrate exercises and techniques.

Most of the models in the photographs are actual Tantra practitioners ~ ourselves (Pala and Al) and wonderful people (ages early 20s to late 50s) who have attended our workshops.

Tantra Sacred Spiritual Sex

Wed, 12 Dec 2007 16:36:19 GMT

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Sacred sex goes far beyond the bedroom, helping partners open fully to each other in trust and love through all facets of their relationship. Your relationship itself becomes a vehicle for spiritual growth and personal awareness. As you learn to open to yourself, to your own inner lover, you naturally open to others around you. You begin to understand that surrender does not mean submission or loss of self, but rather a loving expansion to something that is much greater than you are.

Balancing Feminine (Yin) and Masculine (Yang)

n both Taoist (China) and Tantric (India) traditions there are two opposite yet complementary forces at play in the universe, what the Taoists call Yin and Yang. Yin represents the feminine: cool, receptive, moist, and nourishing. Yang represents the masculine: active, dry, and fiery. Women are mostly yin, men are mostly yang—what popular author John Grey calls Venus and Mars—but within each woman there is some masculine energy and within each man some feminine.

Tags: sacred sex, spiritual sex, tantra sex, tantra, kama sutra, yin yang, taoist

How Tantra Works

Thu, 29 Nov 2007 16:50:09 GMT

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"Tantric yoga is essentially a reprogramming of the mind, and it is the holistic move to the think of the coupler from the saucer of analyse of the individualist themselves. It draws on every the assorted different sciences, including astronomy, astrology, numerology, physics, chemistry, alchemy, psychology, and mathematics. The base determine of Buddhism yoga is to wage a applicatory effectuation of realizing the maximal ideals of belief in regular life.

Tantric yoga is also thoughtful as existence healthy to support with cosmic and sexed energy, and it stresses the intent that a enthusiastic varicosity runs from the minimal conception of the spine, where the diapsid power, Kundalini, rests, to the maximal and most knowledge center, the mind, which is symbolized by the lotus."

Tags: tantra, tantric yoga, sex energy, buddhism, yoga

"What is a yoni massage?"

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 00:47:12 GMT

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The Yoni massage, or female genital massage, brings healing and emotional opening. Your intention is not arousal, or orgasm, although these may well occur, but rather to help your lover become more sensitive, relaxed and connected to her yoni—her sacred temple. Much frustration, pain and trauma are held in the tissues of the vagina, loving massage can help discharge them. This process may bring up strong emotions—feelings of fear or anxiety and joyous outpourings of release. It may take several sessions before her yoni has healed so that she can fully enjoy the range of sexual pleasures it holds.

Tags: yoni, massage, yoni-massage, sacred-sex, tantra

"How can I change the taste of my cum?"

Mon, 26 Nov 2007 00:38:35 GMT

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Try and eat food “from the earth” i.e. as naturally as possible. Also consider taking a zinc and selenium supplement, both are needed for healthy sperm and can make the taste better.

Finally, strong smelling semen may indicate an infection, so if your semen taste doesn’t change when you change your diet, you should consider a visit to the doctor.

Your aim with your diet is to eat one that helps your overall health and the above recommendations will not only make your semen taste better you will also feel fitter and healthier as well.

Keep in mind that you can eat some of the foods we don’t recommend for sperm taste.

You can enjoy red meat and the occasional spiced curry just keep in mind the following when considering sperm taste:

What you put into your body takes between 12 and 24 hours to secrete out and you should simply keep this in mind before eating and deciding whether you want a better sperm taste on that particular day or not!

Tags: sex-advice, orgasm, fruits, semen, tantra

Tantric Sex for Dilettantes

Fri, 09 Nov 2007 19:50:01 GMT

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I. The Girl

You spot The Girl on your first afternoon in Rishikesh. She is long-limbed and graceful, and she walks carefully along the path, as if not to disturb the dirt beneath her bare feet

II. The Holy Place

Rishikesh straddles the Ganges just below the point where the sacred river comes roaring out from the mountains

You don't know a lot about Tantra, but you're pretty sure it's a technique that allows you to have sex for hours and hours at a stretch

III. The Rooftop Restaurant

IV. The Tantra Class

s a spiritual orgasm really better than a physical orgasm? "Yes," the swami says, losing patience. "And a man who has tasted honey doesn't want to eat shit any more

V. The Girl, Part II

The Girl shows up on the roof of your hotel. When her tea arrives, she stretches her long arms up above her head, and you watch the graceful curve of her torso

VI. The Holy Place, Part II

you keep quiet and look for lemurs

travel anywhere is often a matter of exploring half-understood desires

Tags: tantra, india, travel, relationships, writing

"Is there any danger in consuming (swallowing) the secretions released during lovemaking, such as th

Thu, 25 Oct 2007 10:45:06 GMT

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Answer:

Swallowing the fluids secreted by the penis and vagina during lovemaking (male and female ejaculate, and menstrual blood) would not normally be dangerous, and in fact may have important benefits. There is a long history of consuming the bodily secretions from sexual activity to elevate the level of energy and vitality, to boost the immune system, and to awaken the higher spiritual centers. Also, many lovers find it a noticeable erotic turn on to consume the fluids. Tantra practitioners often create sensual/sexual ceremonies and rituals that include consuming the erotic fluids.

Of course, these comments assume that both partners are free of any sexually transmitted diseases. There are some sexually transmitted diseases that can be passed from one partner to the other by contact with the genitals and the mouth.

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