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<?xml-stylesheet href="/style/rss/rss_feed.xsl" type="text/xsl" media="screen"?><?xml-stylesheet href="/style/rss/rss_feed.css" type="text/css" media="screen" ?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Clipmarks | Self awareness Clips</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/tags/self+awareness/</link><feedUrl>http://rss.clipmarks.com/tags/self+awareness/</feedUrl><ttl>15</ttl><description>Clip, tag and save information that's important to you. Bookmarks save entire pages...Clipmarks save the specific content that matters to you!</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>Sleight Of Hand And Sense Of Self</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/0DEECC5D-87F4-4038-B7F5-5C4C8CDE7FE0/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/Kelika/"&gt;Kelika&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  says Dr Moseley. 'That is exactly what we saw.'&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;'Our sense of our physical self comes from what we're born with and the constant messages the brain receives from all parts of our bodies. We've now shown that this is a two-way street. The mind can also influence the body's tissues. We have demonstrated that the mind can control a specific body part.' &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/08/080830192456.htm" title="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/08/080830192456.htm"&gt;www.sciencedaily.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/Kelika/512/61A44AC3-8026-44A6-8BB6-CFA6D6B82B59.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt;The rubber-hand illusion involves placing a rubber hand in front of the participant in their field of vision and near to their real hand. The real hand is then concealed behind a partition. If the real hand and the rubber hand are touched or stroked in the same way and at the same time, the participant tries to co-ordinate what they are feeling (their own hand being stroked) and seeing (the rubber hand being stroked). They can experience a shift in where they believe their hand is to the position of the rubber hand.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt;‘People experience this weird illusion,’ says Dr G Lorimer Moseley of the Department of Physiology, Anatomy and Genetics at the University of Oxford. ‘They will say things like, “I feel like I own the rubber hand”.’&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Body ownership is a fundamental aspect of self-awareness – the feeling that your body belongs to you and is constantly there.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/08/080830192456.htm</clipSource><pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 18:21:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>ΑΝΑΠΤΥΞΗ </title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/40B2E006-2CC1-4123-8B41-4CAE24EA171B/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/panosgr/"&gt;panosgr&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/the-blog/" title="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/the-blog/"&gt;www.huffingtonpost.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;DIV class="read_more"&gt;
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							    &lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/panosgr/512/742FC56C-B01C-42CE-8A04-660C0DB752E7.jpg" alt="2008-07-28-0russell.jpg" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt; Do you know anyone who seems to complain all the time about their job, or relationship, or just about anything? And, despite all the complaints, nothing ever seems to change?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/russell-bishop/keys-to-life-how-to-move_b_120837.html"&gt;Last week&lt;/A&gt;, we briefly touched on complaints as part of the...&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/the-blog/</clipSource><pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 16:48:44 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>LEADERSHIP AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/53C7E321-BB3C-4F81-BADA-4B2BD7CF6FF4/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/einbar/"&gt;einbar&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  "2. Self-regulation: the ability to control or redirect disruptive impulses and moods. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;3. Motivation: a passion to work for reasons that go beyond money or status. &lt;br/&gt;4. Empathy: the ability to understand the emotional makeup of other people, skill in&lt;br/&gt;treating people according to their emotional reactions.&lt;br/&gt;5. Social skill: means proficiency in managing relationships and building networks, an&lt;br/&gt;ability to find common ground and build rapport"  &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://udgaar.in/the-one-who-lead/" title="http://udgaar.in/the-one-who-lead/"&gt;udgaar.in&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/AF9B2324-5B0C-4DEF-ACA5-271BACF85C77.jpg" alt="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3180/2397392140_8acf5bea8e.jpg?v=1207612106" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt;LEADERSHIP  AND  EMOTIONAL  INTELLIGENCE&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt;In today’s scenario if someone is asked to define an ideal leader, most of the&lt;BR /&gt;
people would emphasize on the traits such as intelligence, toughness, determination and vision.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;It has been found that most effective leaders are alike in one crucial way; they&lt;BR /&gt;
all have a high degree of what has come to be known as emotional intelligence&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;It is not&lt;BR /&gt;
that I Q and technical skills are irrelevant, but mainly as threshold capabilities&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt; that is&lt;BR /&gt;
they are the entry level requirement for executive positions. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt; research along with other&lt;BR /&gt;
recent studies, clearly shows that emotional intelligence is the sine quanon of leadership.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt;WHAT IS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Emotional intelligence is the ability to manage ourselves, and our relationships. It&lt;BR /&gt;
comprises of  five components which are as : Self-awareness, Self-regulation, Motivation,&lt;BR /&gt;
Empathy and Social skill.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;1. Self-awareness: the ability to recognize and understand your moods, emotions, and&lt;BR /&gt;
drives,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://udgaar.in/the-one-who-lead/</clipSource><pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 04:52:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Leaning on Christ</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/1FF1D749-4E8A-4441-B205-0A84C7F3E826/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/vgoedmakers/"&gt;vgoedmakers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.rbc.org/utmost/index.php" title="http://www.rbc.org/utmost/index.php"&gt;www.rbc.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt;Whenever anything begins to disintegrate your life with Jesus Christ, turn to Him at once, asking Him to re-establish your rest. Never allow anything to remain in your life that is causing the unrest. Think of every detail of your life that is causing the disintegration as something to fight against, not as something you should allow to remain. Ask the Lord to put awareness of Himself in you, and your self-awareness will disappear. Then He will be your all in all. Beware of allowing your self-awareness to continue, because slowly but surely it will awaken self-pity, and self-pity is satanic. Don’t allow yourself to say, "Well, they have just misunderstood me, and this is something over which they should be apologizing to me; I’m sure I must have this cleared up with them already." Learn to leave others alone regarding this. Simply ask the Lord to give you Christ-awareness, and He will steady you until your completeness in Him is absolute.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.rbc.org/utmost/index.php</clipSource><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 03:06:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>An Anthropological Introduction to YouTube</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/163085B2-2D77-4175-B0FA-D6BDB4FB395E/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/Djiezes/"&gt;Djiezes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  a very interesting lecture (55m)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;More on this &amp;amp; digital etnography here: &lt;a href="http://mediatedcultures.net" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"&gt;http://mediatedcultures.net&lt;/a&gt;/ &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?color1=11645361&amp;color2=13619151&amp;fs=1&amp;v=TPAO-lZ4_hU" title="http://www.youtube.com/watch?color1=11645361&amp;color2=13619151&amp;fs=1&amp;v=TPAO-lZ4_hU"&gt;www.youtube.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;An anthropological introduction to YouTube&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Video]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;more info: &lt;A dir="ltr" rel="nofollow" title="http://mediatedcultures.net" target="_blank" href="http://mediatedcultures.net"&gt;http://mediatedcultures.net&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;0:00   Introduction, YouTube's Big Numbers&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;5:53   The Machine is Us/ing Us and the New Mediascape&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;17:04  5% of vids are personal vlogs addressed to the YouTube community, Why?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;17:30  YouTube in context.  The loss of community and "networked individualism" (Wellman)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;18:41  Cultural Inversion: individualism and community&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;19:15  Understanding new forms of community through Participant Observation&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;26:05 Re-cognition and new forms of self-awareness (McLuhan)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;34:02 YouTube Drama: Striving for popularity&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;39:50 Reflections on Authenticity&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;41:54 Gaming the system / Exposing the System&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/youtube/" rel="tag"&gt;youtube&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/community/" rel="tag"&gt;community&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/video/" rel="tag"&gt;video&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/anthropology/" rel="tag"&gt;anthropology&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/internet/" rel="tag"&gt;internet&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/web/" rel="tag"&gt;web&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/wesch/" rel="tag"&gt;wesch&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/etnography/" rel="tag"&gt;etnography&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/digital+etnography/" rel="tag"&gt;digital etnography&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/society/" rel="tag"&gt;society&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.youtube.com/watch?color1=11645361&amp;color2=13619151&amp;fs=1&amp;v=TPAO-lZ4_hU</clipSource><pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2008 07:44:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Test clip 8-7-08</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/F987DAAE-9BAF-483B-BB30-B513111A9105/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/tandangsora/"&gt;tandangsora&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.fastdefense.com/training_videos.html" title="http://www.fastdefense.com/training_videos.html"&gt;www.fastdefense.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;FONT face="arial" size="-1"&gt;In this book you'll discover how to transform fear from dreaded enemy 
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&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.fastdefense.com/training_videos.html</clipSource><pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 04:15:22 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>a different take on boredom</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/51F8FC43-997E-4F31-ADD7-408AD46EAF1F/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/Lexica/"&gt;Lexica&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://the-urban-monk.livejournal.com/581303.html" title="http://the-urban-monk.livejournal.com/581303.html"&gt;the-urban-monk.livejournal.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/Lexica/512/531DDD10-C639-4C5A-A331-0A2184AD0D0A.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;But after a while - sometimes hours, sometimes days - the boredom becomes a friend. The mental noise keeps playing and replaying, but I’m too bored to pay any more attention to it. And, as the clutter of thoughts becomes irrelevant, so too does the self, or what Joshu Sasaki Roshi calls &lt;I&gt;the “I am” self&lt;/I&gt;. There is no loss of awareness, of consciousness. There is still the sensation of the body sitting still, or walking, and there is still the sound of  the mind’s chattering - but there is no self attached to any of it. No observer, no observed. No mystery, nothing hidden, no question, no answer, every question its own answer. In every moment, birth, life and death, but no one to be born, live or die. No ending of pain, but no suffering arising from pain. No ending of pleasure, but no attachment to pleasure, only an abiding joy in it, in everything, the joy of awakening, of arriving where we have always been.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/awareness/" rel="tag"&gt;awareness&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/zen/" rel="tag"&gt;zen&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/boredom/" rel="tag"&gt;boredom&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://the-urban-monk.livejournal.com/581303.html</clipSource><pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2008 23:04:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Dare to Be Yourself - from Psychology Today</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/E559DBF4-3C6B-43BA-8A5B-973D8421D43F/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/missmartini/"&gt;missmartini&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  I was reading my friend feed stream and someone posted a link to this article. I had some insane realizations this weekend and this is definitely among the list. Though, this is one I think we deal with on and off again through our lives - being authentic and having a core self. &lt;br/&gt;Definitely fascinating and interesting. &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/rss/pto-20080420-000001.html" title="http://www.psychologytoday.com/rss/pto-20080420-000001.html"&gt;www.psychologytoday.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;SPAN class="headingLarge"&gt;Dare To Be Yourself&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;
    A sense of authenticity is one of our deepest psychological needs, and people are more hungry for it than ever. Even so, being true to oneself is not for the faint of heart.
  &lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;SPAN class="textSub"&gt;By: &lt;A class="textSub" href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/rss/mailto:letters@psychologytoday.com"&gt;Karen  Wright&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P class="first"&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;It starts innocently enough, perhaps the first time you recognize your own reflection.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P class="text"&gt;It's also a cornerstone of mental health. Authenticity is correlated with many aspects of psychological well-being, including vitality, self-esteem, and coping skills. Acting in accordance with one's core self—a trait called self-determination—is ranked by some experts as one of three basic psychological needs, along with competence and a sense of relatedness.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P class="text"&gt;"It's some kind of epidemic right now," says Stephen Cope, author of &lt;I&gt;Yoga and the Quest for the True Self&lt;/I&gt;. "People feel profoundly like they're not living from who they really are, their authentic self, their deepest possibility in the world. The result is a sense of near-desperation."&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/psychology/" rel="tag"&gt;psychology&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/self/" rel="tag"&gt;self&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/awareness/" rel="tag"&gt;awareness&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/authenticity/" rel="tag"&gt;authenticity&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/be/" rel="tag"&gt;be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.psychologytoday.com/rss/pto-20080420-000001.html</clipSource><pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 16:21:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>ls sexual deception a male trait?</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/4EA0F3AC-5D92-4048-9211-7ADA93D6A882/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/balthazarus/"&gt;balthazarus&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  "Future studies will need to evaluate the potential for male mate choice copying and deception in natural populations, because male mate choice copying cannot be evolutionarily stable if males always have an opportunity to deceive rivals," they said. After all, if males always attempt such deception, any competitor who didn't fall for the ruse would have easy access to the choicest mating partner."&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/07/080731135914.htm" title="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/07/080731135914.htm"&gt;www.sciencedaily.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H1&gt;Male Fish Deceive Rivals About Their Top Mate Choice&lt;/H1&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;When competitors are around, male Atlantic mollies try to hide their top mate 
choice, reveals a new study &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;They feign disinterest in females after onlookers enter the scene. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;What's more, after encountering a rival, the tricky males direct their first 
sexual advances toward females that really aren't their first pick.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Male mollies are known to copy other males' mate choices&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;"The study highlights that traits that we typically ascribe to humans only can 
also be found in other, seemingly simpler animals and that no consciousness or 
self-awareness is needed for a behavior like deception to occur&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Deception among animals has been seen before, he noted. For instance, ravens try 
to trick rivals about where they hide food. Male pied flycatchers also may 
deceive females about whether they've already mated so as to have another go. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/biology/" rel="tag"&gt;biology&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/fish/" rel="tag"&gt;fish&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/mating/" rel="tag"&gt;mating&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/07/080731135914.htm</clipSource><pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 21:22:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Jill Bolte Taylor: My stroke of insight</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/4E3537AB-A9EA-4097-9E3A-C2ED82653ABA/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/zalisan/"&gt;zalisan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;   You have to click the link to view. This was one of the most moving stories I have had the privilege of viewing. I am a a very BIG fan of TED for sometime now. It never ceases to amaze and educate in the most unusual and enlightening ways. &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight.html" title="http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight.html"&gt;www.ted.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;DIV class="heading clearfix"&gt;&lt;H2&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;Filmed&lt;/STRONG&gt; Feb 2008; &lt;STRONG&gt;Posted&lt;/STRONG&gt; Mar 2008&lt;/H2&gt;
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							&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Jill Bolte Taylor got a research opportunity few brain scientists would wish for: She had a massive stroke, and watched as her brain functions -- motion, speech, self-awareness –- shut down one by one. An astonishing story.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Brain researcher Jill Bolte Taylor studied her own stroke as it happened -- and has become a powerful voice for brain recovery. &lt;A href="http://www.ted.com/index.php/speakers/jill_bolte_taylor.html"&gt;Full bio and more links  &lt;SPAN class="bull"&gt;»&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight.html</clipSource><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 05:14:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Building self discipline</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/738C4BC2-A5FF-4713-9632-DFE8E82F130D/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/fpathan/"&gt;fpathan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/self-discipline/" title="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/self-discipline/"&gt;www.pickthebrain.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;H1 class="title"&gt;How to Build Self-Discipline&lt;/H1&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Discipline is freedom.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;“the undisciplined are slaves to moods, appetites and passions”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;acting according to what you &lt;EM&gt;think&lt;/EM&gt; instead of how you &lt;EM&gt;feel&lt;/EM&gt; in the moment&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Work on an idea or project after the initial rush of enthusiasm has faded away&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Go to the gym when all you want to do is lie on the couch and watch TV&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Wake early to work on yourself&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Say “no” when tempted to break your diet&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;LI&gt;Only check your email a few of times per day at particular times&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;1. Self-Knowledge&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;first trait of discipline is self-knowledge.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;what behavior best reflects your goals and values.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;introspection&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;self-analysis&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;2. Conscious Awareness&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;3. Commitment&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;make an internal commitment&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;making a conscious decision to follow through&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;“What gets measured gets improved”.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;4. Courage&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;self-discipline is often extremely difficult.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;highly dependent on courage.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;accumulate small private victories,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;5. Internal Coaching&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;encourage yourself and reassure yourself.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;“The price of discipline is always less than the pain of regret”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/motivation/" rel="tag"&gt;motivation&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/discipline/" rel="tag"&gt;discipline&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/psychology/" rel="tag"&gt;psychology&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/self-discipline/</clipSource><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 18:25:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Excellent Sheep</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/032570F7-F5E9-4F3B-9D37-8A7A52851307/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/RayWatkins/"&gt;RayWatkins&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  William Deresiewicz&lt;br/&gt;The American Scholar &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.theamericanscholar.org/su08/elite-deresiewicz.html" title="http://www.theamericanscholar.org/su08/elite-deresiewicz.html"&gt;www.theamericanscholar.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;

What happens when busyness and sociability leave no room for solitude? The ability to engage in introspection, I put it to my students that day, is the essential precondition for living an intellectual life, and the essential precondition for introspection is solitude. They took this in for a second, and then one of them said, with a dawning sense of self-awareness, “So are you saying that we’re all just, like, really excellent sheep?” Well, I don’t know. But I do know that the life of the mind is lived one mind at a time: one solitary, skeptical, resistant mind at a time. The best place to cultivate it is not within an educational system whose real purpose is to reproduce the class system.&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.theamericanscholar.org/su08/elite-deresiewicz.html</clipSource><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 01:51:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>A Way To Be In The World</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/E9505D9F-DC16-49D1-AD49-96E48A9BB997/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/zalisan/"&gt;zalisan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  This being Sunday, the sun shinning, I find myself grateful for all that is. Thought perhaps you might also benefit from these quotes. Hope they bring you a calm and joy, relieve any suffering you may have and serve as a guide to the possibilities when we take the time to just be in our own moment.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.religioustolerance.org/buddhism.htm" title="http://www.religioustolerance.org/buddhism.htm"&gt;www.religioustolerance.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;Buddhism, based on the&lt;BR /&gt;
teachings of Siddhartha Gautama&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;"The greatest achievement is selflessness. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest worth is self-mastery. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest quality is seeking to serve others. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest precept is continual awareness. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest medicine is the emptiness of everything. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest action is not conforming with the worlds ways. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest magic is transmuting the passions. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest generosity is non-attachment. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest goodness is a peaceful mind. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest patience is humility. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest effort is not concerned with results. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest meditation is a mind that lets go. &lt;BR /&gt;
The greatest wisdom is seeing through appearances." Atisha.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;"Aware of the suffering caused by the destruction of life, I vow to 
cultivate compassion and learn ways to protect lives of people, animals, 
plants, and minerals. I am determined not to kill, not to let others kill, 
and not to condone any killing in the world, in my thinking, and in my way 
of life.” Ven. Thich Nhat Hanh.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;Tags: &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/siddhartha/" rel="tag"&gt;siddhartha&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/awareness/" rel="tag"&gt;awareness&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/medicine/" rel="tag"&gt;medicine&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/magic/" rel="tag"&gt;magic&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/tags/goodness/" rel="tag"&gt;goodness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.religioustolerance.org/buddhism.htm</clipSource><pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 14:59:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>When walloped, how to repair self esteem</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/DAB09BB7-0A2F-4CD5-8D9D-DD1D5CACF8D1/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/rowboat/"&gt;rowboat&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  This is just a smidgen of the article. &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/07/25/self.esteem.repair/index.html" title="http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/07/25/self.esteem.repair/index.html"&gt;www.cnn.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;B&gt;View what's left, or choose what's right&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt; 1. Experience self-esteem wallop.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt; 2. Use the exercises that follow to switch your way of seeing from your left-brain hemisphere to the right, where you can see beauty more clearly.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt; 3. Allow yourself to absorb the wallop and ensuing emotions without resistance. Notice that while positioned in right-brain awareness, the wallop is unreal, and your beauty is real. This may take time, but hey, that's all you've got.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt; 4. Return continually to this place of acceptance, right through the moment of your own demise.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;P&gt; Fortunately, there are reliable ways of doing this. Our culture avoids them, so they may sound very odd to you. That's fine: Just try the techniques on the next page, remembering that the objective isn't to look different (changing your body), but to look differently (changing your state of awareness).&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;B&gt;Method 1: Draw upside down &lt;/B&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;B&gt;Method 2: Open Your Focus&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;B&gt;Method 3: Feel the rhythm of life&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/07/25/self.esteem.repair/index.html</clipSource><pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2008 17:07:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Mirrors Don’t Lie.. : -)</title><link>http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/67DEA15A-788C-4166-BBE5-55BD62A83CB2/</link><description>&lt;b&gt;clipped by:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://clipmarks.com/clipper/einbar/"&gt;einbar&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;clipper's remarks:&lt;/b&gt;  “When people are made to be self-aware, they are likelier to stop and think about what they are doing,” Dr. Bodenhausen said. “A byproduct of that awareness may be a shift away from acting on autopilot toward more desirable ways of behaving.” Physical self-reflection, in other words, encourages philosophical self-reflection, a crash course in the Socratic notion that you cannot know or appreciate others until you know yourself. "&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;div border="2" style="margin-top: 10px; border:#000000 1px solid;" width="90%"&gt;&lt;div style="background-color:"&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/07/22/science/22angi.html?pagewanted=1&amp;_r=1&amp;ref=science" title="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/07/22/science/22angi.html?pagewanted=1&amp;_r=1&amp;ref=science"&gt;www.nytimes.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/9C9E84B3-9B24-4454-A00E-83180905AC5C.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt; For the aging narcissist of &lt;A title="More articles about William Shakespeare." 
href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/people/s/william_shakespeare/index.html?inline=nyt-per"&gt;Shakespeare&lt;/A&gt;’s 
62nd sonnet, the mirror delivered a much-needed whack to his vanity, the sight 
of a face “beated and chopp’d with tann’d antiquity” underscoring the limits of 
self-love.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/F4D16FEA-CAC4-4AD0-A35B-8EF712CD0436.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;To scientists, the simultaneous simplicity and complexity of mirrors make them 
powerful tools for exploring questions about perception and cognition in humans 
and other neuronally gifted species, and how the brain interprets and acts upon 
the great tides of sensory information from the external world.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" width="100%" style="padding:4px;margin-bottom:4px;background-color:#666666;overflow:hidden;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#FFFFFF;font-weight:bold;"&gt;Clip Source: &lt;a style="color:#FFFFFF;" href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/07/22/science/22angi.html?pagewanted=2&amp;_r=1&amp;ref=science" title="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/07/22/science/22angi.html?pagewanted=2&amp;_r=1&amp;ref=science"&gt;www.nytimes.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://clipmarks.com/image_cache/einbar/512/6394435F-5F3C-4FE6-9C2D-3039CA262F4F.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;How can we be so self-delusional when the truth stares back at us? “Although we 
do indeed see ourselves in the mirror every day, we don’t look exactly the same 
every time,”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt; “Which image is you?”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;“Our research shows that people, on average, resolve that ambiguity in their 
favor, forming a representation of their image that is more attractive than they 
actually are.” &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr size="2" color="#666666" /&gt;&lt;div style="padding: 10px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align:left;"&gt;&lt;DIV id="inlineMultimedia"&gt;&lt;H4&gt;Multimedia&lt;/H4&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;A href="javascript:pop_me_up2('http://www.nytimes.com/imagepages/2008/07/22/science/200080722_ANGI_GRAPHIC.html', '620_728', 'width=620,height=728,location=no,scrollbars=yes,toolbars=no,resizable=yes')"&gt;&lt;IMG height="126" alt="Mirror Images" hspace="0" src="http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2008/07/22/science/0722-sci-MIRROR190.126.jpg" width="190" vspace="0" border="0" /&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Graphic&lt;/SPAN&gt; &lt;/A&gt;&lt;H2&gt;&lt;A href="javascript:pop_me_up2('http://www.nytimes.com/imagepages/2008/07/22/science/200080722_ANGI_GRAPHIC.html', '620_728', 'width=620,height=728,location=no,scrollbars=yes,toolbars=no,resizable=yes')"&gt;Mirror Images&lt;/A&gt; &lt;/H2&gt;&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: 40px;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><clipSource>http://www.nytimes.com/2008/07/22/science/22angi.html?pagewanted=1&amp;_r=1&amp;ref=science</clipSource><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 07:34:05 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>