The Science to Say “NO”

Mon, 12 Nov 2007 13:16:26 GMT

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The Science to Say “NO”

However, those which already experimenter these feelings know that to not say is not always easy. Most of the time, to answer by the affirmative is much easier, and especially much less alarming. It is well for fear one speaks. It is often the fear which blocks us, and prevents us from posing our limits.

- Fear of being judged:

Some consider that to say not is equivalent to a consent of weakness, and they are afraid to be judged consequently. If I refuse to take this additional file, I will pass for lazy,and good-bye my promotion. If I refuse to go to this evening, I will pass for a kill-joy.

Fear of the conflicts:
While saying not, some have the impression to hold head with their interlocutor. They

Fear of wounding:

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7 ways of Finding Subjects for Conversation

Fri, 09 Nov 2007 07:35:57 GMT

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7 ways of Finding Subjects for Conversation

When listening is not enough

As most attentive among you will have pointed out it to me, certain situations are incompatible with the technique of the active listening, which gives bad results then, or cannot be applied quite simply any more. The first weakness of this method, it is that it supposes a low number of

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The Science to Say “NO”

The Science to Say “NO”

7 ways of Finding Subjects for Conversation

7 ways of Finding Subjects for Conversation