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Body Freedom Exercises

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 23:43:56 GMT

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clipper's remarks: Determine which hugs are suitable for which people and circumstances. Hug your lover. Hug other people you feel emotionally close to, for example, children, parents, close friends, and co-workers.

Clip Source: www.askaboutloveandsex.com

High on Hugs

Time for Exercise: 10 seconds to one minute per hug

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Steps:

1.Give your lover different kinds of hugs.

2.Ask your lover to guess each hug’s meaning.
Here are some suggestions for hugs with different qualities and various degrees and types
of intimacy.

I love you (for a lover)

Woman to woman (friends)

I love you (for a family member)

Woman to woman (lovers)

I love you (for a friend)

Opposite sex (friends)

Opposite sex (lovers)

A hug for someone you are sexually active with

“I’m afraid, please hold me”

I might be able to get interested in sex now

Comfort hug (“Everything will be okay.”)

I am really horny

Grief hug (“I’m so sorry for your loss.”)

Hello

Celebrate success or winning (hooray!)

Good-bye (short separation)

Good-bye (long separation)

Thank you (small)

Thank you (major)

Man to man (friends)

Man to man (lovers)

I miss you

This is a reward

Invent some of your own hugs with particular meanings.

Tags: relationship, love, freedom, tantra, advice, intimacy

How to Get Your Partner Excited about Engaging in Tantric Sex

Mon, 17 Mar 2008 23:35:05 GMT

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Clip Source: tantra-sex.blogspot.com

Step 1: Just touch on the topic. Start the conversation by discussing how you want her to enjoy sex more.

Step 2: Start the education process.

Talk about Tantric sex' goals first and not its ways or methods.

Step 3: Tell her it's not even THAT big a mystery.

Let her know that rock star Sting and his wife engages in Tantric sex all the time.

Step 4: Reassure her that your interest in Tantric sex is NOT because there's something 'wrong' in your relationship now.

Step 5: Suggest a good way to start practicing Tantric sex.

A great way to end the discussion is to suggest (not push!) moving forward into trying Tantric sex.

Tags: tantra, tantric sex, kama sutra, sex, relationship

Games Galore

Thu, 13 Mar 2008 23:10:40 GMT

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Clip Source: www.askaboutloveandsex.com

Treasure Hunt I

Treasure Hunt II

Lipstick Love

Rent-a-Thrill: Poor Man’s Thrill Variation

Rent-a-Thrill: Rich Man’s Thrill Variation

If you use your imagination you will be able to come up with playful, sensual, and sexy ways to delight each other. Do your planning alone or together, but take turns with responsibility for creating and initiating the next fun thing to do together.

Tags: pleasure, love, sex, relationship, sex-advice, games, sex-games, fun-games

Soul Sex: Tantra for Two

Thu, 10 Jan 2008 06:24:09 GMT

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Clip Source: www.askaboutloveandsex.com

by Al Link and Pala Copeland

Sex and spirit are our passion - in living, working and writing. Our book, Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, shows couples how they can practically combine these two powerful forces to create a long-term, loving relationship. Through our mix of ancient Eastern sexual practices and modern western approaches to communication and intimacy lovers learn to connect in ways that are respectful, nourishing and lusty.

This is a useful, down-to-earth book written by real lovers for real lovers.

Everything we write about we do in our own relationship to keep it healthy, hot and ever-evolving.

Beautiful line drawings and black and white photographs help to illustrate exercises and techniques.

Most of the models in the photographs are actual Tantra practitioners ~ ourselves (Pala and Al) and wonderful people (ages early 20s to late 50s) who have attended our workshops.

Tantra Sacred Spiritual Sex

Wed, 12 Dec 2007 16:36:19 GMT

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Clip Source: www.askaboutloveandsex.com

Sacred sex goes far beyond the bedroom, helping partners open fully to each other in trust and love through all facets of their relationship. Your relationship itself becomes a vehicle for spiritual growth and personal awareness. As you learn to open to yourself, to your own inner lover, you naturally open to others around you. You begin to understand that surrender does not mean submission or loss of self, but rather a loving expansion to something that is much greater than you are.

Balancing Feminine (Yin) and Masculine (Yang)

n both Taoist (China) and Tantric (India) traditions there are two opposite yet complementary forces at play in the universe, what the Taoists call Yin and Yang. Yin represents the feminine: cool, receptive, moist, and nourishing. Yang represents the masculine: active, dry, and fiery. Women are mostly yin, men are mostly yang—what popular author John Grey calls Venus and Mars—but within each woman there is some masculine energy and within each man some feminine.

Tags: sacred sex, spiritual sex, tantra sex, tantra, kama sutra, yin yang, taoist