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Games Galore

Fri, 18 Apr 2008 22:59:33 GMT

Treasure Hunt I

Place notes (e.g., sticky notes) to lead your lover on a search for sensual, sexual treasures. The hidden treasures are treats you will give your partner such as: a full-body massage, a foot bathing, lingam or yoni massage, nude photo session, or fantasy of her choice.

Treasure Hunt II

Leave notes around the house with messages leading your lover from place to place, ending at a spot where you are waiting and ready to make love. If it is nighttime, turn off all lights and leave a trail of tea lights to guide your lover to you.

Lipstick Love

Leave red lipstick kisses all over the house: on the new roll of toilet tissue; on the bathroom and other mirrors; on the computer screen; on paper cut-outs taped to walls, counters, and furniture; in his lunch box, briefcase, suitcase, drawers, toolbox, golf bag, bowling ball bag, or gym workout bag; in the pockets of his clothes; inside his shoes,

Rent-a-Thrill: Poor Man’s Thrill Variation

Rent-a-Thrill: Rich Man’s Thrill Variation

Tags: love, relationships, love games, sex games, sexy, romantic

The Male Tantrika

Thu, 27 Mar 2008 22:42:49 GMT

clipped by: 4freedomstantra
clipper's remarks: The male tantrika practices semen retention through transmutation of the sexual energy. There is more to this than meets the eye.

Clip Source: tantra-sex.blogspot.com

Practicing semen retention does not mean "Never ejaculating." I simply means retaining semen long enough to avoid depletion.
Avoiding ejaculation for too long leads to congestion/stagnation (commonly known as "blue balls") in the male genitalia which can be a problem in itself.
Congestion/stagnation can be lessened through specific practices such as taoist male genital massage.
More important than simple semen retention is learning transmutation of the sexual energy, where the orgasmic impulse is directed up the spine, (spinal orgasm).
With practice, the frequency of ejaculation lengthens as does the time spent lovemaking.
Although orgasm may become more frequent and powerful, it becomes separated from the impulse to ejaculate so that ejaculation occurs only occasionally.
Eventually, the habit of ejaculation will be relearned so that ejaculation becomes difficult. When this happens, intention must be focused to make it occur from time to time."

Tags: tantrika, tantra, tantric sex, orgasm, ejaculation, sexuality

Pleasure Points for Women

Thu, 13 Mar 2008 22:48:44 GMT

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Clip Source: www.askaboutloveandsex.com

Pleasure Points for Women

She lies on her back. Work your way slowly and tantalizingly up her body with light, gentle caresses as you move from point to point.

1.Big toes, at the base of the nail, on the outer and inner corners—massage her feet first, then gently press these points.

2.The groin creases, where her thighs join the trunk of her body—put the heels of your palms in these creases and, with your fingertips lightly on her belly, slowly lean your weight forward.

3.Nipples—roll them in your fingers, gradually increasing speed and pressure, then suck them.

4.Sides of neck—gently nibble and suck on these highly erotic spots.

5.Sacrum (indentations at the base of her spine)—slide your hands under her body and, pressing into these spots with curved fingers, let her weight provide the pressure.

6.Belly, one to two inches below her navel and above the pubic bone—apply gentle pressure here with the palm of one hand as you begin to tickle her clitoris with the fingers of the other.

The Gears of Sex

Wed, 16 Jan 2008 18:17:23 GMT

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Clip Source: tantra-sex.blogspot.com

"5 Gears of Sex", Chip August, January 4, 2008
"Here are Dr. McCarthy’s 5 Gears of Sex:

1) First Gear - affectionate touching: Hand-holding, peck-on-the-cheek, quick hugs, etc.

2) Second Gear - sensual touching: cuddling, kissing, massage (does not include genital touching)
3) Third Gear - playful touching: erotic massage, playing in the bath or shower (includes genital touching)4) Fourth Gear - Erotic touch (non-intercourse): manual and oral stimulation of erogenous zones including genitals

5) Fifth Gear - Erotic genital to genital touch (intercourse)"

How does prostate massage affect a man’s ejaculation response?

Thu, 29 Nov 2007 16:39:04 GMT

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Clip Source: www.askaboutloveandsex.com

Answer

There are 2 types of prostate massage: external and internal. We normally suggest either or both of these to help men learn to delay ejaculation, but the internal prostate massage can also be used to bring on an ejaculation.

Perineum Massage (External Prostate Massage)

The perineum is the area between the anus and scrotum. It is sometimes referred to as the “million dollar spot” or “male p-spot” (compared to the g-spot for women as a source of pleasure). Men love it when their partner pleasures them with their hands or mouth by tapping, pressing, massaging, licking and sucking this highly sensitive erogenous zone.

Anal Prostate Massage

The prostate can be reached internally through the anus. Men can hold a great deal of tension in the genital area, and particularly around the anus.

Exploring internal prostate massage through anal penetration is one of the quickest ways for men to learn surrender in the art of love.

Tags: prostate massage, massage, ejaculation, sex, anal-massage